Funny? Insulting?

This is a separate thing...nothing to do with the post before this...XD
Somebody from my class just posted something last week, which I think is an insult to that person, ie the subject matter of the post.

Sometimes I think when we become too silly with our friends, ie we always joke, talk rap *crap with them and there's hardly any moment we're being serious with them, and over a period of time, they tend to not take us seriously anymore. They tend to take us for granted.
Whatever we say, it becomes a joke or something to laugh about to them.
Whenever we're being serious, they will surely make a joke out of that.
And even if we keep quiet and do nothing, some stupid thing will definitely pop up.
Most of the time, its something funny to be laughed about.
But sometimes, that joke, which may sound funny to others, may not have the same effect on us. Rather, it tends to be pretty insulting sometimes.
Some may be able to shake it off and say 'They're just having fun...its their mouth, let them say what they want.'
Some may be forgiving enough to forget the matter and brush it off, since its their friends...

I'm not saying all sarcastic statements & jokes which were meant to kutuk (can't find the right english word) are bad, because we know that's the whole point...and they have no bad intention.
Erm, its ok if no one gets that, cause only I can und this. XD

Well, sometimes we may tend to have so much fun messing around that particular subject, but we often did not realise that it may hurt the other person. That funny thing, is no longer something to be laughed about anymore, but rather something hurtful.

So conclusion is, think before you joke or start making fun of anyone.
It may be funny to you, but not to him/her.

*btw, this is just a general opinion of mine...no particular purpose or intention =) and I think I should share this in my blog.

.....the more I look at it, the more geram I feel....ergh...